What it means to grow up.

 Many people claim to know, what it means to grow up. They say, if you are sickly sweet and overprotective about somebody, then that shows, you are mature, because instead of running along and playing around, you chose to see somebodies calamitites and stood up for that person, and issue. No! Before you can stand up for something, you must first see both sides of the issue. There can be times, then nice guys do nasty things, as a child and kick the socker ball in the face of the bully, then run behind their mothers ass and show their fuck-you's there. Growing up takes time -- so does being an adult. There is no manual, what you get, then you turn 18-24 depending the laws in your country. 

The first symptom of a grown up person is -- Tolerance. Then a Man or Woman don't get psyched out about stuff and don't choose sides in a fight, but try to see the bigger picture! You can only choose a side, as a grown up, then you have wagered them both and assessed the pros and cons. A Political activist can't do that, because opting the other side, would border with treason. Just like with a religious zealoth, it would be a transgression, to even contemplate to go there. You would be more lucky, suggesting a Christian Baptist, to read Nietzsches "Thus spoke Zarathustra", then he is presumed an Anti-Christ, then to expect a political activist, to take his opponents seriously. btw. I have read this book, in that setting, and it changed my whole life and thinking, alowing to see past my own religious belief outside the box. This is the very reason, why I speak about growing up. It it wasn't for the people I met, or the books I read and the teachers I had, I would have ended up either as a religious Zealoth; political revolutionary or a suicide terrorist. I have the same profile, but I was lucky. To make an MBTI joke, my ESTJ mother didn't let me fuck up like that, although my INFP overthinking and gloomy dreaminess tried really hard to achieve exactly that. Why do I call the Executive, who is also called the Cryptonite of INFP's such a good mother. Because due to dreaminess and exessive gaming, I lacked executive touch to my life -- and my mother provided me with exactly that. Well Yeah, I guess my grandmother and Grandfather there along the same lines, I suspect. Many Estonians are ESTJ -- even our cars would say it, if there would be room for the fourth letter, X^D You are more, than your numerology; astrology; MBTI or something else chart. Those are just promises for your future -- offers on the market, but you have to still work with these, like you have to familiarize yourself with a new software, is it compatible with your hardware, does it need further upgrades or account managing, annual payments or chores, like customer feedback. A mature person, knows to look these up, before the ok and yes button press, but a political activist acts first and asks questions later. This is the very reason, I distrust any so called adult companies, who talk about growing up. First of all, companies have no age nor gender, because they are not people -- for the same reason, they don't got a vote!! This is the reason, why companies try to get votes through dark and shady means -- by going woke and doing hip things, to win people over, and influence their vote in so doing. That is the real reaosn, why companies and political activists talk so much about growing up. They are like the womanizer, who likes to get the virginity of the girl, once its got, they loose interest. People are not really people to those kind of "Mature" and "Adult" beings, because they are just vectors, to further their agenda. It is as good, if I would let myself be hired on such a position of power, the woke crowd normally uses, and decide, that people must respect the Bible -- and the rib story, everybody, who doubts the rib story, gets banned; or what about marrying rape victims to rapicsts. Deu 22:28.29 also see Exo 22:16-19 what also contains the Witch-hunters quote and anti zoophilia quote. and Deu 22:13-22 because that was also seen as rape, then you used the excuse of "my waifu was not a virgin" excuse to use her as a prostitute. The point is, there are so many foreign and alien concepts in the bible, what don't go anymore. I could do this all day, and the next day, and the day after, without getting bored -- this is the very reason, why we have Church and State separation, that this kind of Zealotry dost take root in the society, corrupting everything. Would you love me, and like my such bravery? I think not. You would even ask me to grow up; get sober and have a good nights sleep over it!! For this reason companies and political activists should not talk about growing up, because they haven't themselves done so yet. They still live in their tiny social bubble and are like the Russian Prince in Vikings, who lived in a birds nest, made in his room, until his older brother chopped it away!! That is growing up! It is violent, it is unrelenting. Some things you can keep from your childhood and cherish, others are forever gone... 

Growing up does not mean, you get to live in a safe space and judge from there, like behind your mothers ass, to show your fuck you's to the rest of the world. A grown up Man or Woman, takes up responsibility and dost make excuses, why somebody else should be blamed for the bullshit, he/she(it does. Being an adult is all about owning up to your fuck ups and getting better. 

Adults don't always win, mostly they cut their losses -- this is the very reason, SJW will never be CEO by themselves or something on their own, because they are parasites, who ladge on working ideas and making them their own. If they would have something to say, they would not need such a thing. 

A grown up can stand his ground, and he can do the smart thing, and walk away, then the fight is not deserving. Try telling that to a political activist or virtue signaling compnay; religious Zealoth... A grown up always knows the difference between right and wrong, without having a nanny or party or government, tell him about it. That is the reason, why Democracy exists, that adult and mature citizens can choose for themselves, not their favorite vendor of Soft/ Hard Drinks!! The only things those are good at, is to give their distribution detail and when the next discount happens. They have no say in your life nor in politics, because their mechandice can be replaced. Never forget that!! If you don't use your vote, somebody else will. Your vote in election; your vote of confidence; your vote of remaining silent and acknowledging the default. We choose the lives, we live, not anybody else!! Knowing this and knowing yourself, is growing up -- nobody outside can give you that... never forget, the responcibility as a citizen and a person, you have in front of yourself and others, even to History!